Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Love Is An Action

We tried a new church on Sunday and enjoyed the message from Pastor Brian Moll at Forefront, which meets in a theatre in Gramercy. Brian began his four-part series called "Falling (and Staying) in Love." The bottom line of the sermon was to make "love" a verb....to love one another, just like Jesus said to do....to put the other person before yourself...to make the other person a priority. 

Sounds easy. But is this what we do? I contend that we are we mostly a vain, selfish people. I know I can be. I don't think we mean for it to be this way. I believe it's a natural reaction. An act of self-defense, self-preservation, or self-promotion. Whatever the reason, it's not attractive. Yet, it is very difficult to let go of the ugly little "self." 

I feel disappointed that "me, me, me" is our most comfortable stance when life is about so much more than "me" or "you". It's about "us" as couples, families, teams, nations. If you stop and think about when you feel happiest in life, it's probably when you're doing something for someone else. Isn't it a joy to bring joy to the lives of others? Then why do we suck so bad at love?

If you'd like to view the message by Brian Moll, it's right here. Maybe, like me, you will start to think about how you can change things up in your relationships. Could there be hope for successful marriages, close families, and dare I say it...peace on earth?

Be good. Be blessed.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Welcome to NYC

As a tribute to the upcoming holiday of LOVE, this is just going to be a post of loves: things I've seen or done or people I've run into or general things that have made me happy since the move to NYC.

LOVE.
Jenna Torres 
Singer/songwriter. Amazing wonder woman, talented writer, beautiful spirit. Introduction by the one and only Scot Sax. So pleased we will be working together, Jenna! Find out more about Jenna here



LOVE.
Pipsqueak Chapeau 
I grabbed one of these alpaca wool kitty cat hats in light pink for my little girl from this designer in Brooklyn. This little hat turns heads. Lots of beautifully-knitted clothing and accessories for both kids and adults.


LOVE.
Eclipse NYC 
My new friend, Simon, from Eclipse NYC measured, ordered, and installed shades within one week for my large and largely unprivate bedroom windows. Nice guy, great work, and very affordable. Get in touch if you need privacy or just want a bit of drama. 

LOVE.
Auer's Moving & Rigging
These dudes are studs. If you want to hoist something through your window, book 'em. A team arrived yesterday to bring the piano into the new apartment. Perfect execution. Not a scratch. And super nice to boot.


LOVE.
Doma Cafe & Gallery
In the West Village on Perry Street. Great vibes. Check it out.




LOVE.
Gramercy Park Hotel
Speaking of drama...after a night out or if you just need a wee little break during the day, stop in and have a seat in the lobby of this celeb-chic hotel. The piped-in aromatherapy, grand fireplace, and people-watching opps make it a worthwhile, "take a load off" kind of place. You never know who you might run into...Julia, Uma, or in my case, "weird, bipolar lady" nodding off on the opposite end of the couch. Just another typical day in NYC.